A Guide to Thriving and Belonging at Lady Eleanor Holles School, Hampton (Ages 7 to 18)

Lady Eleanor Holles School (LEH) in Hampton is one of the UK’s leading independent day schools for girls aged 7 to 18. 

Choosing the right school for your daughter is an emotive decision. You want to feel that wherever you choose will nurture your child’s passions, ambitions and introduce them to new experiences. At LEH, there is no such thing as a typical LEH girl. Ours is a community that empowers girls to take their place in whatever sphere they choose whether that is in the research lab, on the stage, on the pitch, at the head of the boardroom table wherever their aspirations take them.. 

Our Values

  • We Choose to Succeed.
  • We Rise to Challenges.
  • We Lift Those Around Us.
  • We Inspire Trust.
  • We Encourage Personal Agency.
  • We Embrace Joy and Laughter.

Is LEH a hothouse?

Let us answer this honestly: no! A hothouse implies pressure without support and a relentless grind that leaves no room for anything else.Central to LEH’s ethos is the strong belief that academic excellence goes hand-in-hand with happiness, being a highly academic school does not mean an overly pressured or a ‘hothouse’ environment. Our value of ‘embracing joy and laughter’ creates something quite different: a culture of relaxed excellence, where pupils feel supported, balanced, and able to thrive, and where a strong sense of belonging connects us all as a community. 

LEH is an academically ambitious school and we want the very best for every pupil – academically and in terms of their wider fulfilment and development. We believe in Academic excellence with a smile, where achieving their best is done in an atmosphere of support, inspiration and fun. We encourage involvement in extra-curricular activities and have over 100 clubs available – from sport and creative arts and to debating, chess and Model United Nations (MUN) as well as taking part in stunning musical and drama performances. 

Parents can be assured that each of their daughter’s teachers knows each pupil individually and therefore can guide them in the best way for them as an individual to ensure they achieve their best. Instilled in our culture is the value of  ‘lifting each other up’ where each pupil and staff member takes pride in the accomplishments of one another. LEH has a culture where joy and laughter is part of every day, where pupils look forward to fun traditions, where value is placed on lifting and celebrating each other, and where confidence and social impact is championed.

In the ISI inspection carried out in June 2025, inspectors rated the school’s educational quality as excellent, noting that pupils achieve high academic and personal outcomes and that leadership and governance show a strong commitment to pupil wellbeing. We will not compromise on pupil wellbeing and happiness when it comes to the success of our pupils, because we do not have to. LEH is a school where academic excellence and happiness thrive together.

“Holistic approach helps build pupils’ confidence and self-esteem and ultimately leads to high-quality academic and personal outcomes.” ISI Inspection Report, 2025

“A tremendous, ‘proudly ambitious’ school for bright girls who are eager to get involved, to try things, and to excel.” The Good School Guide, 2025

We Inspire Trust

As an evidence-led school, we take our educational responsibility seriously. We lead the way in girls’ education, drawing on the latest research to shape best practice, push boundaries and influence the wider educational landscape.  We have commissioned bespoke research into perfectionism among high-performing girls, exploring how best to support pupils to achieve without unnecessary pressure. Another project is looking at building academic courage and resilience so that pupils believe in themselves and aren’t afraid to try something new or different. Alongside this, we work with educational experts and coaches to support parents through talks and resources, helping to ensure that the same balanced, healthy approach is experienced at home.

We also track levels of happiness – through our own pupil voice surveys and through initiatives such as the BrainWaves collaboration with the University of Oxford, we can say with confidence, and pride, that our pupils report some of the highest rates of happiness and belonging at school in the country.

Whether LEH is right for your daughter depends on who she is, not just how she performs in examinations. We hope this guide is helpful in explaining a bit more about the culture and ethos found at LEH – and in showing what it means to be bold in your thoughts and actions from age 7 to 18.

How LEH balances pace with support

We work hard to create a culture of success at LEH, and this means placing as much focus on pastoral care and pupil wellbeing as we do on ensuring high academic standards.

“Leaders’ ambitious planning, reflective culture and careful consideration of pupils’ wellbeing is a significant strength of the school.” ISI Inspection Report, 2025

We have a number of specific programmes and practices that are designed to make sure pupils are supported while being appropriately challenged academically. Some are specific to the Junior School; others run across the Senior School. Together they form a whole-school commitment to thriving as well as achieving. 

In the Junior School

Monday morning wellbeing check-ins

Every week, a simple check-in gives every girl a moment to flag if she is struggling. Form tutors follow up quietly and individually. Small concerns are caught before they become big ones.

BOUNCE wellbeing lessons

Junior School girls take part in dedicated resilience lessons and workshops delivered in collaboration with the Raising Resilience team of psychologists. These sessions give girls space to navigate their emotions, practise coping strategies, and build the kind of resilience that will serve them far beyond school.

Wellbeing Wednesday

A structured weekly form time built around the BOUNCE skills framework. Not a box-ticking exercise but a genuine space for girls to reflect, connect and reset before the week continues.

Curious 6 and the iPQ

The Curious 6 programme in Year 6 introduces six half-termly enrichment topics that stretch girls beyond the curriculum and encourage them to explore their own interests with confidence. The Independent Project Qualification (iPQ) in Year 5 develops research and self-directed study skills at a pace suited to each girl, giving the pupils  the agency and intellectual confidence that carries through to the Senior School and beyond.

In the Senior School

Life Advice lessons

Dedicated time that sits outside the academic curriculum. Pupils learn about everything from managing stress and building healthy relationships to navigating the world beyond school. The intention is whole-person development and skills for life, not just grade achievement.

Tailored Marking and Feedback

LEH uses comment-only feedback rather than marks in certain contexts, deliberately shifting the focus from performance to learning. Girls are encouraged to understand their thinking, not just their score.Our teachers know our pupils very well, and help and support is available at every point – from lunchtime drop-ins to mentoring depending on what each pupil needs.

Wellbeing Day

An annual, off-timetable day that gives the whole school community permission to pause. Activities range from yoga, treebathing and mindful colouring to visits from therapy animals. It is a visible, institutional signal that rest and joy are valued here.

Paint and Chat

Informal break-time sessions where girls can come together with trusted teachers, make something with their hands and talk. Not every conversation needs to happen in a counsellor’s office.

A school nurse and mental health coach

Specialist pastoral support is available to every pupil, not just those who are visibly struggling. The support is proactive, not reactive.

Bold and Curious, not perfect

One of the distinctive things about LEH is its explicit rejection of perfectionism. The school’s motto is ‘Hope Favours the Bold’ and one of its six values is ‘We rise to challenges’, but another is ‘We embrace joy and laughter’. These work together not independently. 

Girls at LEH are not expected to be flawless. They are expected to try, to take risks in their learning, to treat failure as something that helps them develop, and to keep going. We describe our pastoral support asa safety netbecause falls are expected and LEH is there to catch them and guide them.

“We knew LEH was an academic school, and I guess we did wonder about whether it would feel like a hothouse, but the reality couldn’t be more different. Yes, the pace is purposeful, but the school’s focus on wellbeing ensures every pupil is known, supported, and encouraged.”

LEH parent, Senior School

 

“LEH really lives its values. Our child is encouraged to rise to challenges, but also to enjoy learning and not strive for perfection.”

LEH parent, Senior School

 

“Hold on to the core LEH values: choose to succeed, rise to challenges, lift others up, take ownership, and embrace joy and laughter. Looking back, every setback moved me closer to my purpose. I am where I am not in spite of my failures, but because of them.”
Merryl Ansah, LEH Alumna, Class of 2011 

“What stands out is the balance: high academic standards paired with genuine care. The emphasis on joy and laughter isn’t just a marketing slogan; it’s something we see reflected in our child every day.”

LEH parent, Senior School

 

“The pace can be fast, but there is a lot on offer that isn’t just about learning, like Life Advice, talks, trips and wellbeing days. They give us space to reset. Teachers really care about how we’re doing, not just what grades we get.”

LEH pupil

 

“What I value most is that the school combines high academic expectations with warmth, support and enjoyment — helping my daughter thrive without unnecessary pressure.”

Junior School Parent

What kind of girl thrives at LEH?

We know that as a parent, you want your children to thrive in an environment that is right for her. 

Girls who tend to flourish at LEH are typically those who:

  • are genuinely curious and enjoy learning for its own sake, not just for results
  • are ready to be stretched and go beyond the curriculum
  • embrace opportunity and want to do more than one thing well – whether that is science, rowing, drama, maths, sport or music
  • are looking for a community where ambition and kindness coexist
  • come from a range of academic backgrounds, including prep schools, state schools, through bursary routes, and from the Junior School

The Good Schools Guide describes LEH as a school for girls who are ‘eager to get involved, to try things, and to excel’, adding that smart girls from any background can and will thrive. That is a fair summary of what you will find when you visit us.

When can my daughter join?

LEH welcomes girls at three entry points:

Year 3 (age 7): Junior School entry

Girls join the Junior School at 7+ and progress naturally to the Senior School at the end of Year 6. There is no 11+ examination for Junior School pupils: transition to the Senior School is part of the journey. This all-through route, from age 7 to 18 on the same 24-acre campus, is one of LEH’s most distinctive features. Based in Hampton, LEH offers on site sports facilities and playing fields whilst being easily accessible to Central and South West London.

Year 7 (age 11): Senior School entry

The main senior entry point. Girls join from a range of primary and prep schools, both state and independent. The induction programme is designed to make girls feel at home quickly, and the pastoral team pays particular attention to make sure every new joiner settles well.

Year 12 (age 16): Sixth Form entry

A smaller but well-supported entry point for girls joining for the Sixth Form. New Sixth Form entrants are welcomed into a community that values independence, leadership and intellectual curiosity, with a future-focused approach that prepares students to successfully navigate a changing world.

Very occasionally, vacancies become available in other year groups. Please contact our Admissions team for more information.

Your questions, answered

Is LEH suitable for a girl who is bright but not top-of-the-class?

Yes, our admission process is designed to help us understand which potential pupils would thrive at LEH. LEH is an academically selective school and the teaching is tailored accordingly. Girls who thrive here are those who are genuinely engaged, enjoy challenges and are happy to work hard and try new things, regardless of where they currently sit in any ranking. If your daughter loves learning and is ready to grow, LEH is a great choice for her.

My daughter is nervous about moving to secondary school. How does LEH help with that?

The transition to Year 7 is one of LEH’s most closely supported moments. Every new Third (Year 7 pupil) goes through a structured induction programme designed to make her feel at home as quickly as possible. This includes an Induction Day for pupils and parents where they get to meet their fellow classmates and Form tutors and have fun activities to help get to know each other, an autumn term residential which is an exciting team-building weekend to strengthen friendships and encourage confidence. 

 

Form tutors are chosen carefully for their skill with this age group and the daily interactions means no pupil disappears into the crowd. Parents of one new joiner described the process as ‘fabulous’ and noted that their daughter arrived feeling excited rather than anxious.

 

The transition is also social and creative. Junior pupils often take part in activities with older girls – from discos and creative writing clubs to singing sessions and drama collaborations – building relationships and excitement for the future.

LEH offers the best of both worlds: a focused, empowering girls’ school environment combined with co-curricular partnerships with our neighbours at Hampton School. This balanced model gives our girls confidence in themselves and connection with others.

By the time they step into Year 7, our pupils are ready – with strong friendships, a clear sense of identity, and a deep-rooted love of learning that will carry them through the years ahead.

Does the school expect girls to choose between academics and everything else?

No. This is perhaps the most important thing to understand about LEH. The school runs over 100 clubs and activities each week. Girls row at national level and achieve top A Level results. They perform at the Royal Albert Hall and secure places at leading universities. OurHampton School Partnership adds a further layer of non-academic opportunity. The expectation is not that your daughter will choose a lane. It is that she will find many lanes and use them all.

What does LEH do when a girl is struggling?

A great deal. Firstly, we notice and act early. The pastoral structure includes form tutors, Heads of Year, a school nurse, a counsellor, mental health coaches, peer mentors and a structured wellbeing programme running throughout the week. Our pastoral support is designed to catch girls who are struggling before a problem escalates. The school’s own description of its pastoral team is revealing: they call themselves a safety net. That is not the language of a school that expects girls to cope alone.

Is LEH really a school where joy matters?

 LEH’s values include ‘We embrace joy and laughter’, and that phrase is reflected back to us in pupil voice via pupil surveys,  parent testimonials, peer reviews and the independent inspection report. It is also visible in the school calendar: Wellbeing Day, Paint and Chat sessions, House competitions like Big Sing. Joy at LEH is part of every day.